Tantric Toys

Once you have prepared your body, mind, and space for the tantric experience, you will be ready to make contact with your partner. Taking the time to communicate about your sexual preferences, fears and issues will help you to be more aware of what you and your partner will enjoy most together. When a Tantric master in India was ready to engage in sex with his partner, he would often begin the touching by touching each part of her body. It was common for the man to start with the one foot and touch each part of her body up to her head, and then back down her body to her other foot, all the while reciting mantras that remind the couple that she is a part of the divine goddess or shakti. This shows respect for the woman and the spirit that resides within her.

When both partners respect one another and the divine forces male and female that each holds, the experience is bound to be more divine.

It is said to drink often from the lips, and this include lots of kissing, slowly at first and deeply to connect, balance the energies, and absorb energy and fluids from each other.

Touching one another be aware of the way you feel them, and be aware of the way they are breathing, the changes of temperature, the smells, the sounds, engage every sense you have, expand your awareness with the union of male and female.

Sometimes Tantiks would begin with massages, caressing and touching, there are times when the male and female genitals are placed together, simply touching. There is no hurry, no rush, no worry about time. Let go of all worries, simply be in the moment. Sometimes intercourse will begin, and become intense, and then slow down, and the goal is to capture each moment. Keep contact with each other for hours, touching, and looking into each other’s eyes.

If you achieve orgasm, enjoy it, celebrate the experience, feel the waves of energy pulsate from head to toe, surrender yourself to it, and let go, but maintain contact. Allow the energies to flow to and from each other, feel yourself, inside and out, feel your partner, the air, feel with touch, feel with all of your body, feel with each energy center, feel with your mind’s eye, continue to feel afterwards.

This is the beginning.

While you are having sex or simply making intimate contact, take a few minutes (or hours) and feel some tantric energy.