Tantric Toys

Breathing energy into the body and getting it to flow into the chakras and throughout the body is one of the main goals of the Tantric sexual experience. Focusing on freeing the energy flow through you, and to your partner and through your partner into you is part of it. Feeling the cosmic energy around you is part of it. Focusing your mind to move energy from your lower abdominal area, up into your chest and higher to your forehead and crown are part of it. There is a lot to the tantric energy, but you are already doing this to some extent.

You are breathing when you have sex, you are absorbing energy from the universe, through the air, and from your partner. unfortunately many people do not absorb as much as they could, or they waste a vast amount of energy in the process. I imagine most people stir energy in the lowest root chakra and expel a majority of it through orgasm, and do not absorb as much or move energy to the higher levels often. Here are a few things you can do to raise more energy, higher.

When you are having sex, don’t just focus on you genitals. It’s easy to get focused soley on the genital area. Instead take some time to focus on your abs, how do they feel? How does the energy in that area feel? Focus there are a few minutes, then focus on your chest, how does that feel? It can be amazing how much we can feel, and how much we don’t feel. Spend a few minutes realizing how it feels physically, hour heartbeat, the heat in your chest, the energy surround your front and back, the emotions that are moving at this moment.

Let your mind go back to the genitals, feel yourself, feel your partner. Feel how your lower abdominal area feels, feel the warmth, feel the energy surrounding your front and back in the lower abdominal area. Spend a minute there and then check in with your abs, feel your back, then feel your chest.

Feeling these areas is really making yourself aware of them, not feeling with your hands, but feeling with your mind. When you move your mind, you move energy. Energy flows where the mind goes. This is common knowledge in the Asian and Indian communities. Chi flows where the mind goes some say.

After you have done this, go higher. Pay attention to your breath, to your partners breath. Feel your genitals, your lower abdominal area, back, abs, chest, feel your throat area. Feel the are around your throat and the back of your neck, feel the top of your shoulders. It’s very intersting to feel this are while you are having sex, to be aware of how your throat, back of neck and shoulders and the energy surrounding this area feel, while you are having sex.

There is a spot around the middle of you eyebrows commonly referred to as the third eye chakra, feel this area. Feel the blood flowing through your forehead. Feel the energy of you third eye. Feel the back of your head. Then become aware of your crown chakra on top of your head, feel the warmth at the top of your head.

You just moved a lot of energy from your lower chakras to the top.

This is just the beginning, you can take this to more advanced energy techniques, we will discuss later.